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When I step back and take an objective look at us — he’s 26, I’m 48 — I think I must look ridiculous.Then I remind myself that if it were he who was 20 years older, neither I nor anyone else would think twice, and I realize that I’m falling prey to the same sexism I bemoan.Perhaps for young people who have been indoctrinated to believe it is their God-given right to have an extended period of immaturity in order to experience “childhood” and party in their young years because “LOL YOLO” an age gap would be a problem, but my husband and I were both homeschooled.This meant we were raised without that expectation of extended adolescence, and also meant that we were well versed in interacting with people of all ages, treating people within a decade of our own age as if we could be best friends.
Other, less nefarious baggage that can cause men to go after younger women is them not being able to find good women their own age, or having emotional trauma/damage.I’m well aware that one day he may want children and that living with two kids who aren’t his might become more than he wants to deal with.But over the 10 months we’ve been together, his assurances have quieted my neuroses.He was a Tunisian journalist coming to Cairo to start a new job, and he wanted my advice about neighborhoods and rents. A few days after he arrived, he asked if I’d like to get together. In the meantime, I checked out his Facebook profile and realized that he was much younger than me.Based on the scant information I saw, I couldn’t devise any calculation that would get him out of his 20s.